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第39章条理的功效TheGoodFeeling
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丹尼斯·斯科菲尔德DenieceSchofield
Obvianizationismyfavoritesubject.Howcouldsuchabsubjectbesosatisfyimeexplain.
Atourhouse,weworkonasystemofiverewards.BythatImean,Idon'theartoomuchaboutitwhenIdht,butIhearplentywhenImessup!Soundfamiliar?
Afterspendinghoursonallfoursgtherefrigerator,I'tremembereverhearinganyonesay,"Gee,Meratreat!"Andnooneeversays,"I'msogladallthebuttonsareonmyshirtthis"Or,"Aw.shucks,dear,youmadethebed!"But,boy,doIhearaboutitifthere'sabuttonmissing,astickyfloor,oranuimesitseemsthere'sauniversalmisthatIhaveexclusiverightstothesewingbox,themop,andtheli.(I'mdoioreceivethatidea!)
YoutoohavedoinghouseworkislikefihhyllisDillersumsitup;gthehousewhilethearegrowingislikeshovelistopssnowing."
&iverewards.Wefacethemdaily.Dhtandnoodas.Maybeyou'vehere'snotalotofgloryathome.os;toftenreceiveaccoladesorpatsontheback(withtheobviousexother'sDayorFather'sDay).Andwherearemyloyalsupporterstherestoftheyear?os;respillingmilkinmyrefrigeratumersintheirsockdrawers,andvfourhundredcupcakesfortheAmeeting(whichisusuallyheldthisevening).Nowonderwecludethatanizedliviothechildless,thesioioutheartedparents!
Allthisleadsmetowhygettingthingsinorderisexg!Whenyouhaveacloset,acupboard,oradraweriorder,thatoleareaseemstosay,"You&apawonderfuljob!Keepupthegoodwork!"Whatmotivation!It'sterrifictofeelthosewords,becausecesaretentooneyou'llhe
EverydayIgetlettersfrompeoplealloverthevariableIgetosays,"TodayIycloset.EveryfiveminutesIgoiolookatit!"
anizationfeelsgood,andthatgoodfeelingspillsoverintoyourdisposition.Itimproveyourelookanizedlivisyoufreefromfeelingsofdespair,andstressisgreatlyreduced.Youexperienceafeelingakintorelief.
IrememberwhenIfirstobservedasavingsandlthe"goodfeeling"thatbankingwiththemgavetheirers.SihenI'veofsimilarclaimswaftingthroughtheairways:"os;vegotitandos;vegotitgood."&quoodthingstolife.""Milkhasit.""MaketheworldyouroysterwithMasterCard."EventhedarouhtheHi-Proglow.
Thesedayseveryoneisonthegoodfeeling.I,too,amittoyou-freee.Allittakesissht,alittletime,andsomegoodold-fashionedwork.
ChristopherRobin(fromA.A.Milne'sWihe-Pooh)saiditbest:&quiswhatyoudobeforeyoudosomething,sothatwhenyoudoit,it'snotallmixedup."
Ifyanizedlivingwithkids,youhaveit.Stick;apether-gradually,smoothly,aically-dowoeman.
“条理”
是我最喜欢讨论的话题,这是显而易见的事情。
但是,我为什么会对这样一个无聊的话题感兴趣呢?让我解释给大家听。
在我们家,做什么事的回报往往是消极的,也就是说,当我把事情做得很完美时,几乎听不到赞扬;然而,一旦事情没做好,就会听到很多抱怨!
这听起来是不是很熟悉呢?
我蹲在地上,花了几个小时把冰箱清理干净,却从不记得听到有任何一个人说:“哎呀,妈妈,冰箱可真干净呀!”
我也从来没听人说过:“我今天早上真高兴,衬衫上的扣子没掉一颗!”
或者,“噢,亲爱的,你把床铺好了!”
然而,如果衣服上丢了一颗扣子,地板黏糊糊的,或者没把床铺好,我就会听到抱怨的话。
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