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WhenmydaughterwassmallIlivingheradvifacerelybelievethatshealsoe.ForthemostimportantthingaDaddoisgethischildreadyforlife.NotthatIeverthoughtIwasreadybutatleastIhavebeeosurvivemyyears，sofar.SheusedtositrealeoronmylapandIwouldexplaieriesoflifetoher.Iwouldtellherofmoralsahatmadelifeasgoodasitpossiblybe.Yearslater，whenmydaughterhitthewoeenagedyears，shedidn'tacceptmyadviceasshedidi.Infact，sheobviouslydreadedit.HaveittoheranywaybecauseIwaosurviveherteenagedyears.Isurvivedthemsowhyshouldn'tshelisteakeinthekIhadfromtheexperienypast.ForyearssheomeforadvicebutIuedtosubmitit.NowthatIthinkofit，myfatherdidthesame.
Soon，toosooartedherowwasasthoughourseparatioedthatshewouldoneed，a，myadvice.Atfirstthiswasagoodthing，inthatIappreciatedthefactthatshethoughtmyorththetime.AfterawhileIcametotherealizationthatImightnotalwaysberight.Istartedtofearmyowoherquestions.
Mydaughterisnottheonlypersoniasksforadvice.Mywifedoesitinanoddway.IkheaoherquestionbutitisalmostasthoughshewantstoiimeswhenIgiveheradviceshetakesitinandbasicallymakesherowndeesshegivesmethatoddlookthatasks，"lawereyoubornoherwayIdomybest.
Mypareedtoaskformyadvice.Thiswasverydiffietouand.MostofmylifemyfatheraheoodirehowIshouldhauatioheoneswhosurvivedtheiryearssothattheycoulddirectmetowardcorrectdeowtherolesseemtuessIshouldtakeitasaehisshiftihattheyhavefiherealizationthatIamakiow，ifIlybelievethissamerealizationandfinallyrelaxinmynewrole.
Myfolk'squestionsusuallysurroundtheirpreparatioagesoftheirlives.Ihatethesesituationsbecause，ifIadmitthattheyaregettingold，IamliterallyresighefactthatIamnotfaroff.IaioasI，prayingthatIamadvisiherightthingsbuthowcouldIpossiblyknow？Unlikegiviomydaughter，giviomyparentsinvolvesmeguessingwhattodowithouttheexperiengthroughwhattheyarepresentlyguesstheyaskmebecausetheytrustme，likeIhavealwaystrustedthe
Iamateafact，Iamahighschoolteacherithyoungadultswhoareabouttoembarkoincludecollege，themilitary，orwork.EverydayIamaskedquestihowtheyshaheirfutures，awayfromalifethatteredontheirpubliostpeopledon'trealizethatgraduatingfromhighschooliso&quhtsofpassag"oursocietyhas.Thisistruebecausetheseyoungareleavihadtakenupover75%lives.
So，Iadvicethemastowhatindustrieswillbeimportaheygetoutofcollege；whatmilitaryservicetheyshouldlookinto，ioachievewhattheythioaesjusttotelltheseyoungmelifeisawandthattheyarefortuageoftheirliveswheretheyareabouttobeeadults.EverytimetheyleaveIpraythatIgavethemgoodadviybest.
&imespeopleIdon'tknowaskformyadvice.Theparentsofmystudentsusuallyaskwhattheyshoulddotomaketheirchild'sfuturebright.Sometimestheyaskwhattheyshoulddobecausetheirchilddoesn'tlistenordoesn'tbelievewhattheyaretellingtheIassumetheyaskmebecausetheybelieveateachershouldknowtheahatortheylookatmygrayhairandbeardamyageesmyabilitytoknow.
ThebasiwithWebster'sdefinitionofadviceisthatitdoesn'ttakeintoattheadvisor.Doestheadvisoruheproblemaheabilitytohelpwithadethepast，didIgivemydaughter，pares，ahecorrectadvice？
IthinkI'llgivemydaughteradaskherforsomeadvice！
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